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Who Said Work & Life Need to Be Balanced?

In the modern hustle culture, the term "work-life balance" is often thrown around as the ultimate goal. It's a buzzword that suggests we should aim to split our time and energy equally between work and personal life. But as a health and wellness coach, I encourage my clients to rethink this concept.

Instead of striving for balance, I advocate for achieving work-life harmony.

who said work & life need to be balanced? coach Annie Delre blog post

Why 'Balance' is a Misleading Goal

The idea of balance implies a 50/50 split between work and life, as if they are two opposing forces that must be kept in perfect equilibrium. But ask yourself: do you really want to spend half of your life working?

The notion of balance can create unrealistic expectations and unnecessary pressure. Life is dynamic and fluid, and trying to maintain a perfect balance can be exhausting and counterproductive.

Embracing Work-Life Harmony

Rather than balance, I teach my clients to seek harmony. Work-life harmony is about integrating work and personal life in a way that feels natural and fulfilling. It’s about recognizing that the boundaries between work and personal life are not rigid but flexible.

Harmony allows you to flow between the two, giving each the attention it needs without the constant worry of maintaining a strict division.

The Benefits of Work-Life Harmony

  1. Reduced Stress: When you stop trying to keep work and life separate and instead allow them to coexist, you relieve yourself of the stress that comes with maintaining a strict balance. Harmony enables you to adapt to changes and demands more fluidly.

  2. Increased Satisfaction: By creating harmony between work and life, you can find more satisfaction in both areas. You’ll feel less guilt about taking time for yourself and more enjoyment in your work because it no longer feels like a burden that detracts from your personal life.

  3. Improved Productivity: When your work and personal life are in harmony, you’re more likely to be productive. You can focus on work without the distraction of feeling that you’re neglecting your personal life and vice versa.

Practical Steps to Achieve Work-Life Harmony

  1. Set Boundaries: While flexibility is key, having clear boundaries helps in maintaining harmony. Decide when you will be fully present for work and when you will dedicate time to personal activities.

  2. Prioritize Self-Care: Make time for activities that rejuvenate you. Whether it’s exercising, reading, or spending time with loved ones, self-care is essential for maintaining harmony.

  3. Integrate Work and Life: Find ways to blend your work with your personal interests. For example, if you love the outdoors, consider taking walking meetings or working from a park when possible.

  4. Communicate Openly: Be open with your employer and loved ones about your needs and boundaries. Clear communication ensures that everyone understands and respects your approach to work-life harmony.

  5. Reflect and Adjust: Regularly assess your work-life harmony and make adjustments as needed. Life is constantly changing, and so should your approach to maintaining harmony.


The pursuit of work-life balance can be a daunting and often unattainable goal. Instead, embracing work-life harmony allows for a more flexible, fulfilling, and sustainable approach to managing the demands of both work and personal life.

By shifting your mindset from balance to harmony, you can create a lifestyle that supports your well-being and happiness. Remember, it's not about dividing your time equally but about integrating your work and life in a way that feels harmonious and right for you.

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